The end of the musician era...

It’s the official end of musician guy. He will never be mentioned in the blog again. He really doesn’t deserve the name stunning other than I was completely stunned to discover more about him. I talked to him again on-line, and things seemed in a good place. I explained that he needed to figure out his life mess before I would ever go out with him (example – divorce finalized first). For goodness sakes, get a duplex too instead of living in the same house with her.

I wondered last night just how many dating websites he was on. I decided to Google his on-line screen name. Wow, did I find stuff. He has been on at least four to five different websites since 2006! He misrepresents himself on every single website. He gives different ages, different marital statuses, etc. It’s like completely different personas for each one. One website was just looking for various degrees of hooking up (sometimes with multiple people). Did I mention he apparently has a daughter too? It’s his own fault he married to help someone get their green card. That’s no reason to be a man-whore. I don’t care how doting of a father he claims to be, I feel awful for those children. Maybe I’m a bit naive, but I never would have guessed. He’s off my AIM list and deleted out of my cell phone. Great, now I have to ask people if they are married. I just heard on TV that 1/3 of on-line dating people are married. Beautiful face or not, musician guy is not a beautiful person.

As I’m typing, I’m pretty sure that someone is trying to pick me up on facebook. Weird! I’ve never had someone randomly message me. This guy knows someone that I know. He wrote me a whole paragraph. I’m not big on friending random people though, even if they do know other people I know. The dating websites are, well, the same. Nothing has really piqued my interests. I’ve actually come across a few guys that would be perfect for Sally. I’ve forwarded on their screen names to her. At least one of us needs to find a guy. I’m still talking to the Irish guy. Apparently he is finishing his BA and not PhD. It seems that people really do get the education level thing confused. He’s been telling me about his final school project film that he has been working on.

Did I mention I sort of got asked out on a date? I did! This would be my first on-line date. It’s the cynical journalist! He said he wanted to meet up, and I gave him my phone number. He even apologized on the day he didn’t send me a message which was not necessary, but definitely pretty nice. We both took a personality test, and both came back as being a hippie. He is splendidly sarcastic, and generally just interesting. We graduated from the same college too. He seems to know what he wants to do with his life. Also, he has not called me gorgeous, hot, cute, beautiful, etc… I see that as a plus. So far the guys who have said that immediately have turned out to be sketchy.

-SJ